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If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude. Don’t complain. Simply because, Changing the face will change nothing, but facing the change will change everything. All the best, god bless you

Thats a really good suggestion, like he said it is almost impossible to change the other person, but changing your attitude is in your hands. And if you want to leave more comfortably then it is important for irritation and frustration to stay away from you. Best of luck in life

hmm..is it right to change myself for anyone!! it means I will have to lose myself/ what I am!!!

Be your own.just keep urself busy in your activities and ignore their wrong doings.Do not reply to their wrong or harsh comments as one will soon realise their folly.just remember,”THE SUN THAT HARDENS CLAY ALSO MELTS BUTTER”

i think that u should talk to that person and clear ur differences….................as being friendly ,polite and kind can change anyone …..........................

u said that u r irritated by a person living in a room, with whom u cannt talk to either….....so its better that u try to change ur habit that is causing problem b/n u 2(b coz u cant change that person so change urself).....if there is no progress then u need to speak to that person, make him/her understand that he /she is troublesome to u, so u’ll can move smoothly

irritation is being present in a situation which is not suiting us

KOMAL, you just lower down your expectations from your room mate, this act will reduce the level of your irritation, probably you will start accepting him whis is the root cause of your problem. STAY IN TOUCH

hey KOMAL, is your room mate Jewish?

I think you should change your attitude because you cannot control how the other person feels, but if you adjust your own actions, perhaps by discussing how you feel with the other person, they may open up to you, and you could find yourself a friend

you are right komal v should not loose ourself 4 anybodyelse. N if u r in such a between the devil or the deep sea sort of condition thn u shall just b calm n cool. Just try 2 gaze over their positive aspects n resolve ur negetive thoughts about him he/she may not b that bad vch u assumed her 2 be…...... all the best

hey i think u shud chnge urself u try to adjust with him Remember one thing in life that:- Its nt easier to change thje world but its easier to change urself as its easy to wear slippers than to carpet the whole world…. GoodLuck Wishes and light Abhi MUSiCiAN