if a person has sacrificed everything for achieving his goal and in a situation that that he will completely vanish if he didnt achieve his plan,,,,,and in d end if d result is negative ,so what to do???????
Thats a good suggestion Mukul you should follow this and this will always help you tide over your difficult times.
The way I look at it is: There are two results that you observe and a variable action (or set of actions) and thought pattern.
1. The desired (expected) result(s) – when you achieve what you want through your thoughts and actions; this is what we desire.
2. Other-than-desired result(s) – when you do not achieve what you want through your thoughts and actions; this just means we did not use the proper thought(s) or action(s) and we need to change our thought(s) and/or action(s)
So, if you don’t get the results you want, change your action. You may even have to change the way you think about the results you desire.
World-renown authors Mark Victor Hansen & Jack Canfield (Chicken Soup for the Soul series) were turned down by 126 publishers before someone agree to publish their first book. They have now sold over 112 Million books and according to a recent Harris Polls, 88.7% of the public recognizes the Chicken Soup for the Soul brand and knows what it is.
Colonel Sanders was turned down 1009 time before he found someone to accept his then not-so-famous fried chicken recipe which is now famous around the world through the Kentucky Fried Chicken brand.
By many accounts, it took at least 2,000 separate experiments and maybe as many as 5,000 to 10,000 experiments, sub- experiments and tests before Thomas Edison perfected the incandescent light bulb… and then it really wasn’t “perfected” it took more than another century for the introduction and wide-spread acceptance of the CPL light bulb.
So, just because you don’t get the results you desire doesn’t mean you should give up – just try something different!
Best Regards, CL Webb
its all like a maze…......no not like that ….there r so many ways u have before u….......the best thing is just console urself that u have been given the chance to experience an adversity which prepares u more to get better the next time.
these people r that way!
ambedkar
gandhiji
lincoln
abdul kalam
the list is endless….....
I liked the suggestions given by clwebb,swetha_k ,Ishita-16 .....they’re very encouraging….Infact, I’ve experienced such a situation for the first time and was very depressed..but then later I took time to analize what went wrong and what should be my next step coz this is not the end of the world. Life gives plently of opportunities, we only need to be open to new thoughts and ideas and get outta that state of mind…..Its however isn’t that easy as said…but then nothin is impossible…..but never be idle…...keep urself occupied in someway or the other..play games,learn music..etc…spend time with ur frens….take a break!....afterall life is not all about winning….its good to learn from ur mistakes and take the right step next time u do it rather than doing nothing and repenting for what has already happend…..
dear mukul696969,,dont b so desperate….this is the time destiny is expecting more hardwork and determination as u r telling that u have lost everything in the woy to ur goal….....believe in urself firmly….checkout wat mistakes that u have commited and do well…..all the best
There is nothing completely negative, actually expectations minus reality is frustation.when we don’t get the expected results we term them as negative results where as the negative results are to be taken as wake up calls that what i should not have done. identifying these factors will always give you courage to face the reality and remain focussed even when you get negative results.
don’t think of it as failure – don’t ever dwell on the negative. It’s not over yet – treat this as a learning curve for you, and a valuable experience that you can learn from
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